Good ways to approach a girl at the mall?
I’m wondering if i’m at the mall, what’s a good way to approach a girl my age? It always seems if i were just to go up and greet her and ask her how she is she would immediately think i was hitting on her. Also it seems like it’d be very awkward and strange for me to do that. What are some possible clever ways to get a girl’s attention so you can chat with her at the mall? It’s also hard if she’s with a group of friends cause thats kinda weird. Any tips??
You: “Hi, excuse me. Do you know where….. Is?
Her: “uh… Just go there, and there, and there…”
You: “I can only stay for a sec, i gotta meet someone there but i need your opinion on something. I’m going to my friend’s party tomorrow night and i need a new set of clothes to wear. What store would you recommend?”
Her: blah blah blah
You: “Wow, so you’re a fashion expert now. How nice. Anyway, i noticed that accent (anything from her that can lead you to another topic)
– there’s no magic word in approaching. It needs a skill of making a conversation last. In order to successfully do this, you should be in your talkative mood.
– practice cold approach. Since women in malls are not there to meet guys, you need to approach as indirect as possible. By saying the word “Hi”, this can be startling.
– tease her lightly but not in a rude way.
– act as if you just noticed her out of the corner of your eye. You should notice her over the shoulder. To elaborate this, your entire body, except your face, shouldn’t be facing her. With your entire body facing her, it will come off ass needy, as if you have an agenda.
How do I approach a girl at the mall?
Ok I go to the mall and I see all these pretty girls. They check me out and smile at me and stuff but I don’t know what to do when I walk up to them an I have no game. Help please!
I have been approached many times by guys when I am out and the worst thing they can do is act really awkward. One time I even had a guy’s friend come up to me and ask me for my number for his friend who he pointed to but then the guy looked away…that was really bad haha. But what does work is if you are polite and strike up a friendly conversation. If you think her hair looks pretty than you could complement her or something or you could ask a simple question, say something funny and try to get her to giggle or smile a bit and see where it goes from there. If she seems interested then try to keep the conversation going and right before you leave you should ask for her number. Remember: be a gentleman! Act mature and confident but not stuck up or cocky.
Girls – Approaching at the Mall. Is it Weird/Do You like It? Does it Happen to YOu?
I’m not real confident around girls – I mean I am great with the girls I already know but I’m not great at getting to know new girls and just approaching girls. I’m gonna go to the mall and try to strike up conversations with them randomly and see where it goes just to get used to it. Could you guys and girls give me some pointers and how would you like to be approached? Would you think its weird?
I don’t think it’s wierd-most girls would be flattered and would love to chat. Just be sure not to act to…creepy or sketchy, you know. Try out complementing her for starters, then keep the conversation smooth-maybe talk about what store our in, or maybe (ok, say she’s holding a dog or something)-comment on how cute her dog is. Try just using what’s around you to strike up a conversation, like if you’re waiting in like for food or something. Don’t be shy!
How can i approach a girl at the mall?
im 17 and have no dating experience at all. would it be a bad or weird idea to buy them something like their lunch if you are both on the same line? I am talking about getting to know a random girl at the mall and getting her number. girls answers would be appreciated.
Yes very weird.
And I don’t even like getting approached at the mall. I’d ignore you.
Is it awkward to approach a girl checking you out at the mall?
I was looking around the internet trying to find out some information about approaching girls at the mall. Everyone says it’s either creepy, or it’d make me seem desperate. But what if it’s a girl that’s actually interested? Like, if you see a girl that’s obviously checking you out, would it be weird to approach her and try getting her number?
Go up and say, “hi.” Introduce yourself. See if she responds. If she doesn’t seem interested, say, “nice meeting you” and move on.
Only ask for a phone number if you’ve been talking with her for more than ten minutes and she seems to be enjoying the conversation.
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