Sometimes men are intimated by romance because they over-complicate and make it more difficult than it has to be. Women don’t necessarily want or need fine wines and fancy flowers every day (although they are nice sometimes). What they really want is to feel valued, loved and respected.
Flowery poetry is great and if you are able to express yourself in a way that is creative and beautiful then go for it. However, if you can’t then don’t fret. Next time you want to say something romantic to your lady try simplifying your words and getting straight to the point.
Women respond best when they feel you are being honest and speaking from the heart. Long, elaborate statements may seem practiced or give the impression that you are TRYING to woo her. Being subtle, simple and sincere is the best way to romance a lady.
5 Romantic Things to Say to a Girl:
1. “You’re my best friend”
This is a simple, beautiful statement which will surely make her smile. Women, more than anything, want to be important to you.
They will love to hear that more than anyone in the world, all of their buddies included, they are the person you are closest with.
They are your confidante, your rock, the person you look to for support, love and companionship. You enjoy their company the very most.
What more romantic thing could you ever say?
2. “You’re so smart”
Women want to be valued for their minds, their abilities and their talents. Often men emphasize their ladies’ looks (which, don’t get me wrong, is a great way to compliment a lady) but forget that women want to be loved and respected for their minds.
Your lady may not be a scholar or a rocket scientist but she undoubtedly has talents and skills that you admire. Make sure and let her know. Point out that you love that she reads a lot or that she is a talented musician.
You can let her know that you are impressed by her ability to handle tough situations or that she is great with organization or fixing things. Whatever it is that she is “smart at” is the thing you should emphasize.
3. “You’re the kind of woman I could marry”
If you’re married or engaged then this particular compliment would need to be edited. (Think: “I am so glad you are my wife.” Or “I can’t wait to marry you!”)
In any case, the basic point is to let her know that you see yourself with her forever and you are excited and feel honored.
If she is particularly phobic of commitment then be careful throwing this one out but, for most women, this is a very high compliment which will cause them to blush profusely. Every woman wants to be “the one” for someone.
Every woman wants to be valued above all others and loved unconditionally. Heck, don’t most men too?
4. “My mother would love you”
Women want to be accepted by other women. There is nothing more important to your lady than to feel that your mother would (or does) love and admire her. A mother’s approval is huge.
Your mom was the first woman you ever loved and women want to feel like they are worthy of her affection and that she thinks you are in good hands. Just as you would probably want the acceptance of her father she wants to know that your mom thinks you made a good choice in her.
5. “You’re a wonderful person”
This pretty much sums it up. Men love women who are the “whole package”; Smart, beautiful, kind, funny and full of life! Of course they do. Who wouldn’t want that?
For that reason she wants to be looked at as a well-rounded and just plain awesome person. Tell her she is wonderful when she makes you laugh or when she does something kind.
Instead of pointing out that specific thing which she is doing simply stating that she, as whole, is wonderful will certainly earn you a kiss… and maybe more!
These 5 simple statements may seem too simple but, trust me, they are not. Women will respond wonderfully to these compliments because they are romantic, unrehearsed and sincere. They make you seem sensitive, thoughtful, kind and loving without coming across as “trying too hard.”