This seems obvious but there are quite a few things that you should never say to your girlfriend or wife.
There are just things that will never go over well. If you say these specific 5 things you should be prepared for a negative response… a very negative response.
As a matter of fact, if you are willing to utter these 5 phrases then you should be willing to risk breaking up. Beware!
1. You are Getting Fat
Hopefully this goes without saying! You should know better! Seriously! Were you raised in a barn??!! Never tell a woman she is gaining weight. If you do, be prepared for the fury that will come down upon you.
If you really feel you must say something than NEVER use the word, “fat” and know for a fact that the conversation will probably not go in your favor.
2. I Wish You Looked More Like…
You may not mean any harm by implying that she isn’t as hot as Mila Kunis. You probably figure she knows that just like you know that you don’t look like Ashton Kutcher.
However, she does not want to hear it. She always wants to feel like you think she is the hottest thing ever! She knows that the chicks on TV are hotter but she doesn’t want a reminder… from YOU of all people.
3. You are Acting Like Your Mom
These are fighting words! No matter how irritating, annoying or irrational she may be acting NEVER say it! It will end very badly.
You will not only be attacking her but her mother. She will be doubly defensive and you will be doubly in trouble.
4. Your Best Friend is a B****
Don’t badmouth a girl’s best friend. Women love their friends like sisters and she will never forgive you for saying it!
If you don’t care for her best friend then avoid her but never let your girl know what you really think. She will look at you differently and hold a grudge about it for a very long time.
5. Your Parents are Annoying
Talking about her parents is probably the worst thing you could do. You will set yourself up as the enemy and put her in a position where she feels like she needs to mediate between you and her parents.
She will never look at you in the same way. Just don’t do it. Not ever. If you must say something choose your words wisely and be careful to let her know that you do think they are great… NO MATTER WHAT!
If you have ever said one or more of these things to a lady you probably know that a woman will almost never respond well to them. There are some very specific, fragile parts of a woman’s ego and when you spout off about her weight or her mom you are breaking them open.
If you aren’t up for a WW3 type of fight then it may be best to keep these thoughts to yourself. You know the old saying about if you have nothing nice to say? Yeah, then just SHUT UP!