What To Say To Girls At The Gym

Thomas asks…

How can I talk a girl at the Gym? I see this girl but I dont know what to say.?

answers:

Compliment her form when she exercises, or offer help as she exercises.

James asks…

What do guys think of sweaty girls at the gym?

I go to the gym, me and all the other women there get all red and sweaty. (Not talking stinky, just sweaty.) I have heard guys say this is hot. Personally I feel like a mess at that point. But from guys, what do you think?

answers:

Its hot cause it means youe gunna be showering and geting naked i guess, i just think of what the girls gunna look like naked

Joseph asks…

there’s this girl at the gym that i want to talk to but have no idea how to start a convo. what do i say?

im 17 and i think this girl is about 23-25 range. i can’t stop peeking over at her and she catches me every time. but she doesn’t say anything and it seems that she won’t workout further than 3 machines away from me. i need something to say to start a conversation with her.

answers:

Just go up next to her and be like is this machine free?? And then start working out next to her and keep up the convo…then you will know if she is even remotely interested…

Paul asks…

How can i have confidence with girls at the gym ?

I am a 17 yr old asian teen who goes to the gym to tone / build muscle. For the last 2 weeks, i have seen a girl who is soooo pretty that i want to chat with her. Not for dating, but for just being friends & general chat. The problem is that she is way out of my league & i dont have confidence / don’t know how to speak to her…

Can someone who’s been in this simular position please give me much needed detailed advice. Guys- (what would you do if this occured to you ?) Ladies – (Would you ever mind a guy wanting to chat to you in a gym ? If so, what would you like them to say ? Would you mind if they weren’t hot?)

answers:

You have great intentions…use them.

You’re gonna have to bite the bullet on this and walk up to her when you see her (not while she’s on a machine, but in between reps) and say what you said, “Excuse me, but I couldn’t help but notice you while I was working out over there. I think you are soooo pretty that I wanted to chat with you.”

It’s sincere, honest, and genuine. Not many girls are approached like that in the gym. They’re leered at, snickered at, hollered at, cat-called at, but NEVER really approached by a guy with genuine intentions.

Good luck

William asks…

How can i speak to girls at the gym if i have no confidence ?

answers:

You’re pretty sure she’s not going to be interested in you, so the fear of rejection is gone. Just take it slow so she doesn’t think you’re coming on to her. Start with a smile and a hello as you pass by. If she doesn’t reply, or outright looks away, just shrug and forget about it. If she smiles back and replies, ask her how her workout is going next time you have a reason to talk to her. Hopefully you can build up to a full conversation.

If she gets mad, or tells you to get lost, just apologize for bothering her. If you think you screwed up the conversation and made her made, get her a cute “I’m sorry” card and ask the staff to give it to her on the way out or something. Sign it with your real name, and if she doesn’t know your name, include some kind of a description so she know who it’s from. Then from that point just smile and nod politely to her. It’s up to her from there if she talks to you.